What spices do for food, aphrodisiacs do for sex and eroticism, add flavor! Aprodisiac are all around you from vegetables looking like a phallus and ripe peaches looking like a yoni. Its all about the intent in how the Aphrodisiac is used, if theres no intent in using the products in a sensual way and just to moisturize then you won't feel the euphoric properties as much compared to using the product with intent of attracting a mate or more love of self.